Sending all my love to anyone who is hurting today.
“people look at their phones 2 much in public places!”
- u have no idea what that person is looking at it may very well be their dissertation, the last letter they got from their grandma, or a book that’s too big to carry. who care that they wanna look at insta more than at u
- people used to be bored/self-isolating in public w/newspapers + books don’t act like we were all chatty + friendly before the internet
- ppl w/anxiety find it comforting and this generation has the highest rate of anxiety on record
- on that note, phones are transitional objects, which means that they function as a comfort device (a piece of “home” in an unfamiliar place)
- go touch a soft animal and calm down
laid on your bed at night & just cried?
Cried because you’re ugly. Because you’re not good enough. You counted all your flaws from head to toe to punish & feel worse about yourself. Cried because the comments people blurt out, actually hurt your feelings. Cried because your family is dysfunctional, but you’re just a kid who can’t do shit about it. They tell you to stop complaining, that you have it much better than the kids in Africa. You don’t want to be a burden, so you bottle it all up. Around people, you’re the happiest ray of sunshine. But nobody knows, that at night when you’re alone, you break down & just cry.
i fall in and out of love with myself on a consistent basis tbh
men don’t have the right to call anybody boring first off. if you aren’t stroking a man’s ego, talking to him about sex or coddling him then he’s going to be perpetually unsatisfied and lose interest in you because men really can’t focus on anything that isn’t about them for longer than 5 minutes unless they think they’re going to get something out of it! THAT’S boring.
a man so confident he won’t ever feel threatened by your elevation
a man so sincere he won’t want anything else except how to grow alongside you
a man so strong he’ll always find ways to protect you
a man so loving all he’ll want to do is be busy loving you
a man so solution-oriented he’ll always want disagreements to be solved with love and care
a man so beautiful you look at him and thank god he was created
a man so invested in you that you start to count how many of his babies you can produce
a man so luscious your entire body shakes for his touch
a man so spiritual you can’t help but bow down to god with him
a man so humble you start to worship his deity
a man so open that he listens to you with care
a man who values you that he takes you everywhere he goes
a man who builds with you
a man who travels with you
